Ladies: Be the Change

Dear Ladies,

I know it can be a harsh article. But this is a true feeling felt by one of my close friends. I am deeply touched by this unforgiven and unacceptable behavior. So, I am not able to frame my words in a story. So, first, Pardon me!

I think we have tried a number of ways to impress our partners and their families. We have tried to get unconditional love from them. Our Foolishness!

No Doubt girls can do anything and can argue about little things at their home. But once they are ladies, they lose their virginity officially, now they have lost their self-respect too, and lost their home too. Now they are homeless.

It's the irony of the society. They treat their ladies this way. They want them to be courageous but at the same time, they want them to behave like a shy innocent girl. They will taunt her, but at the same time, they want her to serve them innocently. They want them to respect their families but at the same time, they expect her to accept their family’s unrespectful behavior with grace. They will not care for her feelings but at the same time, the girl should take care of them as a child. They cannot protect her from their family’s harsh words and actions, but the girl should show respect towards them.

Hey Man, this is not possible. Your unrealistic, unacceptable demands will not be served anymore.

Dear Ladies, take responsibility, be your heroine, and act what is required. No one in the world will be there to make you happy. Unconditional love is loving yourself. That's the truth.

Accept yourself. Be the Change and Feel the Change.